Christmas gift guide for the lady in your life.

Christmas shopping for the lady in your life

With Christmas approaching again Christmas shopping is yet again at the forefront of most people’s minds! Yes, really, this is the time to start to plan what you are buying the lady in your life. I wrote this guide for the men who need a helping hand to feel good and confident about giving their […]

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Understanding Conflict

  Conflict. “Oh, I don’t like conflict.” “I avoid it at all costs.” “Anything for a quiet life.” For the person making these statements, there is a fear that conflict means anger, raised voices, relationships damaged forever and in some cases, even violence. So, there is no wonder they are never truthful about how they […]

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Divorce… What about the children?

Unpleasant negative feelings emerge in response to situations of conflict. When couples are in conflict it is not only destructive to them personally, it is unpleasant for the others around them, especially their children. Divorce may be decided if conflict cannot be resolved, for others there may be no conflict just a feeling they are […]

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How to choose a Couple Counsellor

Choosing a Couple Counsellor When engaging the services of a Marriage / Relationship / Couple Counsellor, it is vitally important to feel secure in the knowledge that the Couple Counsellor has their roots, training and experience working with Couples. Engaging in Couple Counselling with an unqualified Couple Counsellor can be counterproductive and can often leave […]